I'm sick of having to babysit people. I tried so hard to help a friend through a break up but she is beyond idiotic to understand or listen to what im trying to say, even if i told her the true answers she till wouldn't listen. WHY THE FUCK AM I HELPING YOU?
Such as he adding her ex on to her myspace, and she told me "All he said was whats up.." I told her "Well just make sure you don't come off needy." she FIRED back "All I said was "Whats up?" DOES THAT SOUND NEEDY?" Slowly trying to hold back telling her"I didn't know what you said back, but i was trying to say don't try and blow up his comments."
She then said "Why am I so stupid for doing this again? why do I even try?"
I told her "Cause you wanted answers." AND "But thats why they call it a break up cause its broken." (Thanks to the book.) Then with the childish, most bizarre way she could put it with "Fine I just won't try. I don't feel like talking im going to bed and cry." Im not feeding in to it, Im not going to even respond or make sure your ok... Go fuck yourself. I hate my friends.. I really do.
Every single friend I've had never listens, never is compasionate, completely annoying, or controling, and I can't find a single person to be true friends with. Its like now I just use them for the company, WHY THE FUCK NOT? Just shut the fuck up and stand there. kthanks.
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man i needed you around after my break up. thankfully i read the book though :) i am just as dumb as this girl though, probably even dumber. it's amazing how you think you'd never be "that" girl who would still keep her ex around or whatever. anyway point is, that's bullshit when you help but your friends pull away. unfortunately (and say this because i've done it too), us girls are pigheaded and don't tend to listen to friends no matter what they tell us or how much they're trying to help. not to say that's right but my best friend has told it to me like it is and not even nicely a lot of times, stuff related to guys i liked or whatever and i never listened and i got hurt every single time. she was right every single time. i guarantee you though, next time around...i still wont listen to her. lol. it's so fucked up but true. if it helps, i always appreciated your advice :)
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